Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is--his good, pleasing and perfect will. Romans 12:2
Now that our old is gone how can we polish ourself, renewing our mind. God has given each of us different talents, abilities and gifts. What is his will for your life? What is he trying to tell you?